When you are in a new place, there is a certain threshold
that when crossed, the place doesn’t feel so new anymore. It just becomes
normal life. Once you adapt to a place, you can discover new aspects of culture
that a tourist passing through with his eyes in his camera is not privileged to
witness. I am now staying with the
Brigham Johnson and his family in Twifo Hemang, a village about an hour north
of Cape Coast. They are an amazing family that really has their life in order.
They are a powerful couple with three motivated and intelligent (though
sometimes very stubborn) boys centered in the gospel and in living a happy and
fulfilling life. They have welcomed me as they would their family and provided
for my every need. But everyday when I go out, I am by myself. Alone. I have
never really been truly alone much before. My whole life growing up I was with
my family, if not with family, then in school surrounded by everyone else I
knew. I spent quite a bit of time away from home prior to my mission but was
always with close friends. For those two years on my mission, 24 hours a day
seven days a week, a companion accompanied me like a shadow. Then college; new
school, new scene, but I found my people faster than any loneliness could
really settle. I guess I live by the “home is where the heart is” adage and
bloom wherever I am planted. Including now. But to bloom as a single tree in an
empty tundra is much different than in a sheltered forest. There are different
winds that blow in new ways.
To combat any feeling of loneliness, I have tired to stay
busy. In the past weeks I have been here, I have purchased and learned how to
ride a motorcycle. I love Ghana and all of its little intricacies but if I
could pick one thing to go without, it would have to be the use of the shoddy private
transportation system. There is no government run transportation with
standardized prices and fares. Every taxi and tro tro (15 passenger vans that
can fit double that) is individually owned and therefore has their own
individual costs. These costs can widely very, especially with the introduction
of a foreign skin colour. I can’t even begin to tell you the amount of time and
money I have wasted standing outside a dirty taxi window fighting over a few
cents they want more than then fair price. Yes, I know it is just a few cents
and I should probably just give them what they want and avoid contention. But
there is an unalienable principle; you don’t treat someone differently because
of the colour of their skin, no matter what country or continent one may
reside. No matter the amount of education or exposure one may have had.
Exposure is the key. Ignorance is a hard opponent; they don’t know when they
have lost.
Naturally, the only way to really avoid any of my principle-fighting
is just to get my own set of wheels. I bought a motorcycle from a friend and oh,
has it been worth it! I am free to go where I want, when I want and for the
price I want. Petrol is quite cheap for a motorcycle and one tank can take me
pretty far. About a week and a half after I learned to ride, I set off on a solo
100 mile journey from Agona Nkwanta to Twifo Hemang. Sure, there was some
difficulty along the way, like the part where the moto completely died at a top
of a hill in the middle of a rainstorm. Or the part where the mud was so thick
that my wheels lost traction and I flopped to the ground like and idiot. Of
course it was the one place where there were tonnes of people idly sitting and
watching. Or the other part where the panel that holds the battery in place
fell off and I had to squeeze it tight the rest of the way with my legs. You
know, that kind of stuff. You either sit and pout about it or find a solution
and move on.
It’s been an adventure driving a motorcycle around the
jungles of Ghana and I’m convinced that you can never truly know true freedom
until you are driving through the jungle by yourself on a motorcycle hours away
from any civilization. It’s quite a feeling.
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